Wednesday, November 01, 2006
NO OVERPOWERING
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage.
Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character."
It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.
It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations...
TRUST
TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships.
When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.
How i wish there's no "lie" dat hurts us when we happen to find out the truth.
I am sooooo stupid to TRUST people so much. But once you start lying to me,there's no TRUST left in my dictionary. What i can do is to listen to your story & "wash" it off the next day. I wont believe every single words you say. Like the saying goes, "once bitten twice shy". Dats how i feel now. So i will not say much or make the matter worse. One day,you will feel guilty of your own mistake....Dont wori,i will forgive but not forget,for sure.
-AWIEJA-
~~hurtbaybie...i dont care abt hurting myself,but its abt hurting my love ones..~~
